Single? Christian? Wanna know what you shouldn’t do on a date? Oh, if only it were so simple! Yes, there’s a laundry list of poor decisions you could make on a first date. As a Christian single man and woman, hopefully you’ll avoid some of the more serious pitfalls on your own accord; however, these 5 first date don’ts will help save you from the realm of regret, and hopefully help to score you a second date.
Don’t Missionary Date -
Here’s the deal. If you want to date someone who doesn’t believe in the same things you do, you may have chosen an uphill battle. That being said, it’s not always a bad thing, and by no means is it an absolute! Just keep in mind: This is a FIRST DATE. You’re not walking down the aisle with your Christian online personals date. So keep an open mind.
Don’t Pour on the Perfume/Cologne -
Smell nice. Don’t smell like you dove into a vat of perfume/cologne instead of taking a shower. You’ve been there before, haven’t you? There’s nothing wrong with putting on a little scent, but as a Christian singles dating show a little mercy to your first date. If your date’s eyes are watering in the first five minutes, it’s never a good sign. If you’re not sure how much is too much, do yourself a favor and simply opt for deodorant.
Don’t Forget Your Table Manners -
Trying too hard, party of two, your table is now ready. For starters, eating in front of someone you’ve recently met, or want to impress, is an exercise in futility. OK. So I was thinking that I would talk while you chew, and then you could talk while I chew, and then we can both chew for awhile and just stare awkwardly at one another, and what’s up with that weird thing your eye does when you sip your water-Check please!. So if a meal is what you want to set as a first online singles date balance conversation and consumption equally.
Don’t Bring Your Baggage -
Baggage. Everyone’s got it. And if you’re on a first date with another Christian single, that’s great, because both parties will be well aware of the sinful and often stupid nature of humans. Yet, no matter how comfortable you are with your adult friend in the first 30 minutes-no matter how bad you want to tell them you just got out of a 5 year relationship in which your fiancée decided they were in love with you sister, and could never be happy with you, or that your mom called you “Awkward Andy” until you were 26. . . Leave your baggage at home.
Don’t Talk or Text on Your Cell Phone -
It’s rude. Nope. Ah. Huh-uh. Stop trying to justify it. If you’re on a first time online dating with someone, be on the date with that some-ONE. No business. No Face book. No receiving texts that make you giggle, and thus alienate your date! Unless you’re expecting an emergency related phone call, leave the technology addiction in the car, or better yet, at home. And no, your roommate calling to tell you to pick up milk on the way home is not an emergency.
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